Sunday, 22 March 2015

Things that make me happy...

Coming home to my dog, Bruno
This is probably one of the best things of having a dog. Even if you live alone or with your family or friends, whenever you come home, your dog would be the first one to welcome you. And no matter how tired or exhausted you are, you would suddenly jump up with happiness to play with your dog.

Waiting for my favourite show:
Every time the clock strikes nine, no matter what I'm doing, I would leave everything and switch on the idiot box (Or fight with my brothers for remote first) and change the channel to "Zee Cafe" to watch Desperate Housewives. I absolutely love that show. I know it'd be easier to just download the entire season on my laptop and watch it in a day but that would just ruin the fun. Waiting for my favorite show everyday is one of the many things that give me happiness because I know no matter what I do the entire day and how much time I waste and then, regret wasting it, this is that one hour when I can sit quietly in my living room and just enjoy watching my show. This is that one hour when I don't need to worry about my pending homework or exam preparation or the bad things going on in my life or anything else. I give myself this one hour to completely forget about the things that going on in my life and give my mind some peace because I know how important it is to spend some time alone or to meditate. So, this is how I meditate. 
Taking random silly pictures of my family members
And family members include my dig, Bruno too. Yes, I am obsessed with my dog because he's SO adorable. I love to see him play or sleep or do silly things. One of the things that I do is clicking selfies with him; selfies in which he always looks adorable and I am the one who has to try different angles to look good. :P



And besides my dog, I love taking stupid pictures of my siblings, especially my younger brother and my elder sister. I spend most of the time with my sister and I have this habit of taking her stupid pictures secretly and then sending those pictures to her on Whats App and see her reaction. This is so much fun and yet again, one of the reason to be happy.

Teasing my siblings
One of the happiest moments is when I pair up with any one of my siblings to tease the third one. Any two of us would try not to laugh on the third one's joke and to see that sibling go through the trauma of having to explain his/her joke is probably the funniest moment of the day. And when the joke ends, we would burst in tears of laughter. All my friends know that we are four siblings and every time I'd mention this, they would always say, "Oh Man! You guys are so lucky. You are four. You would never get bored because every time you'd want to play with someone, you'd have three people to play with. You guys can even play Dumb charades or UNO or anything." And this gives me happiness to hear such things because whenever I get bored, I actually have so many people in my family, I can ask anyone to play something with me. And it is not just about having someone to play with you, it is also about having someone to console you. Even if a day would come when I wouldn't have those "best friends forever", I'd not be lonely because it's not like I need a lot of friends when I know I have some amazing people in my family. :)

The thing is that there are so many things around us that are just wonderful and can give us immense happiness but people are so busy that they don't get time to realize the importance of these little things and the people who exist in their lives. We don't always have to be upset when we know that we have those things and people who easily bring a smile on our faces and make us happy. One doesn't always need to be lonely, upset or depressed. Even when I am alone, I'd write down my thoughts and even writing gives me happiness. And this is the thing we need to realize that "The luckiest man on Earth is the one who isn't afraid of its own company."


By
Simran Bharti
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Saturday, 14 March 2015

My last day at school: CBS

It had been only one year I had spent in CBS and now, I was shifting to a new place. It was strange how close we all kids had grown to each other in just one year. I had went to the school each and every day for one entire year and had become a part of the famous groups in my class. We all were five friends. We were in fifth standard. I was living in Gurgaon at that time and only during my last month of the school, my father had told me that we were shifting somewhere in Delhi because there was a chance that he'd be transferred to some place else during the same year. South, west, east or north, we had no idea. He was in Cargo airport at that time so this topic of transferring to some other state was discussed very often at home. But I had no idea that it would come so soon. It was like we all were forced to leave our friends and father too. That was a hard time.
The day he told me that as soon as my fifth finished, we'd move to Delhi, I was devastated. I had made such good friends in school and a lot of teachers knew me. I had participated in so many cultural events, learnt how to swim, made such good friends, started dancing and learnt about so many things, the same year I was told that I would no longer get the chance to experience such an eventful year again in my life because we were about to move to a congested place and God knows how people there would be. I had been the happiest when I was in fifth.
So, the next day I went to the school and announced the sad news in the class. All my friends were very upset. Next day, I was absent because we had to pack all our belongings.
Then arrived my last day of school, I knew it was going to be one hell of a day. Everyone would be upset and wishing me good luck and hugging me, crying and stuff. This was nothing new to me because it wasn't happening for the first time. I was only in fifth standard and I had already changed my school twice. This was my third school. I had to leave my loved ones earlier as well, before I had become a part of this new school and here I was; wishing all my loved ones good-bye again after a year. I had made up my mind that no matter what happens, I was not going to make new friends now. I had been so tried of leaving my friends again and again and seeing myself hurt. Such a fool, convincing myself not to make new friends only to safeguard myself from the pain that causes when it comes to saying good-bye. After all, I was just a kid.
So, I went to school like it was some ordinary day. The first half went as usual. Then, rang the recess bell and I and my group mates collected our lunch boxes. Then, they all asked me to look away because they had to do something. I was confused of course! Well, so I did what they had asked me to do. Then, I turned around and saw all four of them with some cards and gifts in their hand. They had made such adorable cards for me and a friend of mine, Aparna had bought a pair of  silver apple-shaped earrings for me. I looked at them and I was almost in tears. They hugged me and said good-bye in their own way. They asked me to come visit them at least once in three months but I knew that wasn't going to happen since I was permanently moving to Delhi and we had sold our house too. I knew I wasn't going to visit them so I hugged them even tighter and said, "This one year had been the most memorable year of my school life."
We were in tears and then, on my way back home, I thought about moving to a new place and told myself that safeguarding myself from pain was a foolish thing to do. This is not how I should start my life. I decided to make as many friends as possible so that I create as many beautiful memories with them as I can. That's the best thing friends-"The more the merrier". So, I changed my negative approach because of the loved I received from my peers. Their love filled me with optimism. and motivated me to get used to the changes in life.
Now I think that it's actually true what people say about childhood:
"Childhood memories are the best memories."
#Together #LookUp 

By
Simran Bharti
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